God, now I truly need your answers,
Why doesn’t my son clean up! Where is his house, is he thinking he is in a camp or something?
To adults blame entirely is bad, we all make mistakes when we rear kids, and it’s forgiven, but as soon as you gather yourself up, they take note. So don’t say to any teenager – don’t sit around a be messy, if you are, and if you aren’t then they aren’t either – in the long run. I promise. What is there (inside your heart) is also theirs. It’s all in the ‘air’ so to speak, and if the air is pure, and clean, they absorb it as well. Take care of yourself, and they will benefit. All teens do this by the way, and all teenage boys are a mess at times. Please forgive and forget but never say ‘you have a problem’ as it’s not his, it’s yours!